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Who Told You It’s Wrong to Live Vicariously Through Your Children?

By Michael Cohen If you’re a parent, you’ve heard it: Don’t live vicariously through your children. It’s said so often it feels like common sense. Teachers repeat it. Therapists caution it. Parenting books shout it in bold type. The “good” parent, we’re told, folds up

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A joke for Thanksgiving.

A joke for Thanksgiving.

Make your family hate you with this insufferable yarn!
The Memorial to the Murdered Jews of Europe | Photo from Antonio Westphalen

Five Rooms of Memory – When Silence Shook Humankind

By Antonio C. Westphalen Berlin, April 15, 2025.  Since 2018, four young au pairs from Germany have lived with our family. They shared not just their time and care, but their culture, their language, and themselves. From the very beginning, our children asked when we would visit them, when we
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A white boy telling black stories.

By Isaac Wood I’m a Midwesterner living in a small Appalachian city. I’m your typical white man, a member of the nearly eighty-five percent white population you might expect from Johnson City, TN. But I’ve learned there’s a lot more to see in a place than
The author with her children | Photo from Amelia Morris

When Politics Become Your Religion

By Amelia Morris This essay has been lightly adapted from its original, which was published on Amelia’s blog.  “She’s just trying to be relevant,” a friend said forgivingly about a person we both know, a person whom I thought was being too loud and assertive with their opinion.
Two Valleys

Two Valleys

By Kaitlin Jarema When I tell people at parties I was an archaeologist, they look at me in shock and interest, and immediately ask about where I’ve worked overseas. I expect disbelief, and occasional disappointment, when I tell them I worked primarily in Pennsylvania. “Archaeology? On the east coast?
Pages from books, blown by the furnace and caught in tree branches. Ironically enough this one reads: “history of your life.”

Witness.

The fire that took my home — and restored my faith in how society works
J’accuse.
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My Journey to Stand with Standing Together.

By Joe Szwaja When I first heard about the October 7 attacks, I contacted my son Engel, who follows the region closely. He was horrified by the violence against Israeli civilians and predicted a huge response that would be devastating for Palestinians and likely include a full-on ground invasion of
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The compassion we can’t see.

By Zoe Clarke Earlier this year, my grandfather almost died. Not from an accident or a terminal disease. He almost died because he wanted to.  My grandfather is a very tough, and very loving, person. He spent many years bossing around cattle on his farm with his wooden cane, but
Impressions of the forest near the author's childhood home, by the author

In Quiet Company with Death

By Anonymous in Washington, DC The first time I remember wanting to die was in early childhood. I grew up in a rural area of the Appalachian foothills where I was encouraged to explore and ask questions about nature. One autumn day when I was playing outdoors, I noticed the
Karen, Billy, and daughter Nanao, a week before leaving the U.S., Summer 1974 | Photo from Karen Hill Anton

An American Abroad, and in Japan — 50 Years

By Karen Hill Anton “Karen! Hey! How’re you doing?” “Fine, fine. And you? It’s been a long time.” “You’re telling me. It’s been about fifteen years. But I’ve heard all about you.” “Oh, really  —  what’ve you heard?” “That you married a millionaire, have seven